Monday, March 31, 2014

Movie Monday!

Hello my little bloglettes... Sometimes I have a hard time picking a movie to write about, and then we watch one on TV and I'm like, That's it! Here was some of our weekend entertainment:




I love this movie. I'm a Nick Cage fan and I love that the kid who voices "Hiccup" from How to Train Your Dragon is the main character. I feel like I'm watching 2 movies at once! Action packed, a hint of the old Mickey Mouse version to make you reminisce and bam! You have an excellent movie!

Have a great Monday, and thanks for stopping by!

Friday, March 28, 2014

You don't have to run a 5K

I just want to let you guys know that my mom is battling breast cancer. Or rather, she's battling the chemo that is getting rid of her breast cancer. So if my posts are spotty, I apologize. My goal is to give you guys quality content and entertainment, and some days are just harder than others. So thank you for being patient and understanding, and thanks for all the prayers and support. My family greatly appreciates it!

And moving on..

I am by no means a fitness or nutrition guru. I've never been the athletic type. I'm a book worm, I'm a writer, I'm an editor. My place is in a chair at my laptop or in bed with my Kindle. But I'm not a teenager anymore, my knees are wobbly and achy, and as I've told people time and again, if you see me running either something is chasing me or look for burlap bags in my hands with big $$ symbols on them. That has led to a little extra around the belly and other aches and pains that come from being stagnant and still for so long. Because of the knee issues, I have to keep my movement low-impact and low-key so as not to aggravate old injuries. This doesn't mean I can't be healthy and fit.

So what is this post about? 

I want to let you know that you don't have to be a runner to be fit. You don't have to do a triathalon to be healthy. And you definitely don't have to prove to anyone your fitness by how much you can bench, how far/fast you can run or by winning medals in sporting events. 

Take it from me. Just move. Play a dance game on your favorite console (We love Just Dance on the Wii). Go for a walk in the park when the weather is nice. Walk your dog (or your cat, I suppose, if your cat doesn't mind a leash-mine does, he gets very mad when he's harnessed). Do yoga. Swim. Do situps while Rachel Ray cooks delicious food on the screen or while Jimmy Fallon cracks you up. Stretch your muscles every morning. See a chiropractor. Meditate. 

And equally as important, nourish your body. Take care of it because it's the only one you'll have (in this lifetime at least, if you believe in multiple lives). I swear, now that I eat a little healthier, small changes here and there... now when I eat greasy or fatty foods, my body lets me know that I have to be nicer to it. It's okay to eat bacon once a week. It's okay to have cake at parties. It's all right to eat some girl scout cookies when you have your period. It's really true when they say moderation is key. It is.

Most importantly, don't feel ashamed when you see that girl running down the street; ponytail bobbing, skinny legs striding along the pavement. You're not her. Your body is different than hers. Same for guys too... that guy with the six pack and no shirt running along, that's not you. The key is finding out what works best for you and your body. Listen to what your body is telling you, it will tell you what it needs. Once you listen and give it what it wants, you may not be the skinniest person, but you will be the healthiest version of yourself, and that is what really matters.

Curves are good. A little extra weight is okay to have. Healthy comes in all shapes and sizes. Just be the healthiest version of yourself, and that will be good enough. 

***To be fair, there is NOTHING wrong with people who love fitness, work out in the gym, run 5Ks or anything like that. If you're someone like this, I'm betting you're smart enough to understand that everyone works out in different ways and has their favorite ways to move their bodies. I just want people to know that it's okay to be fit in a non-traditional sense. Thanks!

Take care of yourselves, and thanks for stopping by!

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Editors Making Money as Writers

Bet you didn't know that, as an editor, there are simple ways to make money writing. I didn't either until I listened to a webinar hosted by Rebecca Matter from AWAI (American Writers & Artists, Inc) yesterday afternoon.

If you go to Writer's Life, you should be able to get some information from the webinar I attended yesterday. I'm not going to post it here, I don't want to interfere with her traffic, but she relays some very good ways for people in our industry (writers, editors, etc) to make money by writing for companies online.

Also, a great website is Writers' Digest for information and help with writing. Rebecca is from Writers Digest and is very kind and helpful. She truly wants authors to have a voice and for them to be successful.

The more you know about the industry, the better decisions you can make and the better job you can do. And on top of that, the more money you'll be able to put in your pocket! It's amazing the kind of places that you can find for yourself to make a little extra cash.

I know this wasn't a long post, but my life has been quite hectic lately!

Thanks for stopping by!

Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Naughty Blogger!

You knew this was going to happen at some point too:




So as an avid reader and someone who can't resist finding out what all the hype is about, I got myself these books and read them all. To keep it simple and basically clean, they're smut. To be clear, there's nothing wrong with smut once in a while. If you've read any sort of scandalous romance novella, it's like those on steroids. If you take out all the sex, you would still have a decent story, which is the only reason I found it blog-worthy. It wouldn't be nearly as exciting, but it would still be a story. If you're looking for some spicy time-filler, this is the place to find it. 

Tune in tomorrow for some editing etiquette!
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Monday, March 24, 2014

Movie Monday!

Back on track!!! Last week was really busy, and my family's been fighting off little colds and bugs for the past week, so it's nice that we're all kind of getting a little better.

So, you had to know this was going to happen....




Despite the whirlwind of publicity this movie has gotten, I don't think there was too much hype leading up to the release of this movie. It lived up to and exceeded the excellent Disney standards and served an entertaining and endearing story of sisterly love. I actually think more of the backlash came after the movie was released. Analysis after analysis of the storyline, the relationships and all the characters have created controversy and question the lessons we are teaching our children. Without giving too much away (if you're one of the very few who haven't seen this yet) the older sister, Elsa has a special power of freezing things and creating snow. Her parents teach her to keep it hidden after she hurts her little sister. Much of the controversy comes here, where people have blasted Disney for teaching our kids that if you have a difference, you should keep it hidden away, to conform to what the social "normal" is. This is frustrating because I can see what the parents were trying to do here. As a parent of a child with "social differences", we know that OTHER kids can be brutal. They can be hurtful, they can be bullies and they can tear a kid down for the very differences you as the parent find endearing and sweet. I think the parents in the movie were trying to protect their daughter from the intolerant, ignorant fools that are unfortunately rampant in our society. "Conceal, don't feel, don't let them see..." To me, that means 'don't let them hurt your feelings, if they can't see why you're different, they can't pick on you for it.' It's a sucky perception, but it can be necessary at some points in your life. 

That aside, the movie is sweet and funny, and will make you feel all the feels. I will be back tomorrow with a book review!!

Thanks for stopping by!

Thursday, March 13, 2014

We Didn't Escape!

Posting a quick note. . .

Unfortunately, our house has been hit by the stomach bug. So far it's just been my son and I, but I'm sure daddy is not far behind. It hasn't been awful, but has kept us pretty much snuggled on the couch, which is mere paces from our downstairs bathroom, thank goodness. 

So needless to say, I've been tortured with the likes of Kronk's New Groove, Sonic Underground, and various Halloween and Christmas shorts by the characters from Shrek, Madagascar, Monsters Vs. Aliens, and Megamind. Not that I mind, I love snuggling with my little guy, but the tummy trouble I could live without. And I'm secretly looking forward to 8:00 when Big Bang Theory comes on. I'm sort of over the animation by now.

Yesterday I finally turned the edits for the third Phoenix Project book over to the author, which means I have a little time before my next project. I will be working on my It Works! business, writing, doing some recreational reading (gasp! what's that?), and getting my house back into a little bit of order. I noticed that I tend to let the laundry and dishes stray when I'm focused on a project, and the moving about I did today consisted of dishes, folding/putting away laundry and sweeping. Hopefully tomorrow I'll be feeling better and I can get even more done! 

This weekend I will be at this event with my It Works! stuff. Come visit and check out all the new awesome stuff this company has!

I may or may not post tomorrow, depending on how things go, but I will definitely be back to posting next Monday.

Thanks for stopping by!

P.S. Look for the new Phoenix Project to be released in April!

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

A book that shows a twist to autism

Today I'm going to do something a little different. I'm going to talk about a book that hasn't been released yet.



I actually saw this book on Good Morning America a few days ago. It's a story about how a family tied together Disney movies with their son's autism in order to help him communicate better and to teach him life lessons. For example, how to give a girl space when she needs it from Alladdin, how to see people for their beauty within from Beauty and the Beast, and to never give up from Finding Nemo. I have seen a lot of articles lately about keeping children away from media. But I've seen where some kids can only find themselves or relay their feelings through very specific ways like this one. This is a true story, and one that I can't wait to read. I've already preordered my copy! 
Here's a link to the Kindle edition: 
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00HEVTPJ0/ref=mp_s_a_1_cc_2?qid=1394562527&sr=1-2-catcorr&pi=AC_SX110_SY165_QL70

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Monday, March 10, 2014

A New Movie!

Today's movie is on the recommendation of my husband because I haven't seen in its entirety, but the half of it I did see was amazing.




I really enjoyed what I saw of this movie, my husband filled me in on the rest when I got home from my errand. He told me that my son watched the whole thing and understand it all, and it's very hard to find something interesting enough to hold his attention, which is impressive. I'm looking forward to watching the rest of this movie for myself. The graphics and actors are all stellar. And, interesting fact: Moises Arias from Hannah Montana and Wizards of Waverly Place is in this movie.

So check this one out!
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Thursday, March 6, 2014

Book Store Series, Part 9

Here's the next installment. There is furious writing and editing happening, and a lot of what has been written up to this point will probably be different from how it was originally, but I'm looking forward to seeing all this hard work in its final form eventually.

If you missed: 



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There was a police car outside the store, red and blue lights swirling. Vin stood outside, speaking with an officer. We walked past them and as soon as Sophie saw us, she jumped up from where she was sitting near the bottom floor fireplace and ran towards us. She hugged us hard and I could feel her sobbing into my shoulder.

When she caught her breath, I held her at arm’s length and looked in her face. “Soph, let’s go sit and you can tell us what is going on.”

We returned to where Sophie had been sitting, and she recounted what happened since meeting Vin after work to go to the store. They showed up, door was locked, big mess, no Theo. Big mystery. I know I was mad at the man, but I never wished for this. I had thought that after everything blew over, we’d have time to talk about things and I could ask him all the things I wanted to. He had the answers I needed, and now I might never find out what they are.

Just then, Vin and the officer came in the store and Vin walked over to us. “The officer wants to ask you guys some questions,” Vin gestured towards the front doors. Milo and I rose to meet the officer, but Vin stopped me, letting Milo go ahead. “Lily, I’m sorry about everything. I hope we can all work through this.”

“It’s okay, Vin. It’ll all work out. Let’s just focus on finding Theo.” I squeezed his arm and jogged to catch up with Milo.

The officer began, “Sorry I have to do this, but it’s standard procedure when dealing with a missing person report. Officially, we usually wouldn’t report someone missing until at least 24 hours have passed, but in this case, there is the possibility of a crime involved.” He proceeded to ask us typical questions, and we seemed to pass the test. He looked at Milo and said, “You can go.” He turned to me, “Ms. Stone, I have a few more questions for you.”

Milo looked at me apprehensively, but I gave him a nod. “I’ll be all right.”

“Ms. Stone, you just found out that Mr. Trussman is your biological father?”

“Yes, sir.”

“And the last time you spoke with him, you had an argument?”

“Well, he had just told me he gave me up because he was too sad to keep me around. I was angry and hurt, so I made him leave.” I was getting agitated with the direction this questioning was going. I eyed the officer, a gold bar across his pocket that said “Simons”.

“Did the altercation become physical at all?” This Simons fellow was grating on my nerves.

“I beg your pardon! Firstly, look at me. Do I look like I could take a grown man? Secondly, the man was my father. Yes, I was shocked, but I was not so angry would kill him! Are you finished?” I crossed my arms, and threw my most intense withering glare at him.

“Sorry, ma’am, I’m just following protocol. I’m all set for now. Thank you.” He tipped the edge of his cap, turned, and walked out.

I walked back to where Sophie, Milo and Vin were standing by the fireplace. Sophie came to my side and linked her arm through mine. “You okay, Lil?”

“Yeah, I’m fine. Just strange questions from that officer. It seems he was implying that I’m responsible for Theo disappearing.”

“What? That’s ridiculous! Don’t worry about it, he was probably just asking normal questions when someone is missing.”

“You’re right. Back to you, tell me more about when you and Vin showed up today.” I needed to stop thinking about the officer’s questions and try to figure out what happened to Theo.

“You know most of the story, but follow me.” Sophie started walking towards the staircase.

We walked up to the second floor, and a few aisles in had yellow tape across them. That dizzying feeling hit me again, just like the first day I walked through the door. I stopped, put my hand on the railing, and I felt Milo next to me, putting his arm around my back.

“Are you okay?” he asked.

“Yes. I’m fine, just a little lightheaded.” I started following Sophie again, the dizziness fading, but a fuzzy feeling had settled in my head. Nevertheless, I could feel Milo’s concerned gaze on me, so I turned to him and said, “Really, Milo, I’m fine.” He continued walking, but I knew he would be keeping an eye on me.

The closer we got to the yellow tape, the more cloudy my head felt. I heard Sophie explaining the scene they found earlier, and judging by the mess of books all over the floor, there had been some sort of skirmish. 
There were books everywhere, the shelves almost empty. Although I had just found out my father was missing, all I could think was how the books would be ruined; their bindings over-stretched, the pages bent, and dust jackets folded. I shook my head, trying to clear the fuzziness. I left the group looking at the mess and started walking. I wasn’t sure what, but I felt something pulling me.

“Lily, where are you going?” Milo was taking this new big brother gig too seriously.

“Milo, I am fine. I’m just going to look around to see if I can find anything else.” I turned on my heel and headed down the rows, following the pull deep in my belly.

The feeling was getting stronger with every aisle, but at one point I could feel it fade slightly. I stopped, and then took three steps back to a row behind me. The intensity grew deep in my gut. I looked back to where Sophie, Milo and Vin were standing, deep in conversation, and none of them were watching. I turned into the row and started walking.

The fuzziness in my brain was taking over, but I knew somehow that I had to get down this aisle. I walked to the end of the row, and saw a book lying open on the floor. As I stepped towards it and bent to pick it up, it felt like I was watching someone else’s arm reaching out. I picked up the book and closed it, a picture of a crown on the front. Suddenly, the world was spinning, like being on the teacup ride at the fair. I saw the floor getting closer and the book bounce across the floor away from me. I felt a grinding sensation in my shoulder as it bore the brunt of my weight from the fall. I thought I heard “Lily” faintly from somewhere in the distance, but I couldn’t find it in me to answer.


My vision blurred and the bookshelves in front of me shifted, changing shape and color. The strangest feeling came over me, like all the cells in my body were jumping away from each other, stretching out beyond my skin. It wasn’t painful, but uncomfortable. I wanted my cells to stay where they belonged, and for my skin to stop crawling. Then, everything went black.

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

And so on . . .

Today's post is another Editing Etiquette post. Today's topic is the ellipsis.

An ellipsis is the punctuation of several dots used to note that there is information that is being omitted or a trail-off sentence. Looks like . . .  <---that, including the spaces.

I didn't realize how confusing these could be until I read through my copyediting book, The Copyeditor's Handbook. Here are some tips and tricks to using them correctly.


When a writer is quoting from a source, but the original text has much more information than what they are trying to emphasize, they can place an ellipsis in the place of the extraneous text. This will use the three-dot method.
Example:
   Original: "There are many types of dogs that are good with children and other pets; they have good temperaments and will make great companions for children.
   Quoted: "types of dogs that are good with children . . . make great companions for children."

If the ellipsis break happens over a sentence in the original text, the four-dot method is used. This is because the ellipsis would include the punctuation (the period at the end of the sentence) from the end of the sentence in the break. If the above example had been two separate sentences, this is what the ellipsis would look like:
   ex: "children . . . . make great"


In fiction writing, an ellipsis at the end of a sentence notes that a thought or idea trails off without being completed. It can also imply a character's hesitation or uncertainty.
   Ex: "I can't believe that she . . ."


There should always be spaces before, after and between each dot, regardless of the method you use.


In fiction writing, although the structure and the three-dot and four-dot method rules for an ellipsis are the same, the rules about how to use them are a little different, especially concerning conversation. In regular text of the story, keep it simple and use them only as they fit. But in conversation, as long as a pause or a trail-off of thought are present, the ellipsis is relevant. For example, a character who lacks confidence and stutters or mumbles would probably have many ellipses in their conversation.

Okay, I think that's good for today.
Here's a website that you can refer to for some basic ideas about the ellipsis: When to use Ellipsis.

That's all, thanks for stopping by!

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Book Review

Today's book is a children's book. Having a child with autism and ADHD forces you to get creative when finding books and activities that will hold their attention.

This is a great one:




This is a book we got from Usborne Books. The mouse comes out of his little plastic pocket on the front of the book, and you can push him through slots on each page as he runs through the house and makes all sorts of trouble. I'm not sure if you can get this book outside of Usborne, but if you can, I highly recommend it. Interactive books are really great for kids like my son. 

Have a great day!
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Monday, March 3, 2014

Movie Monday!

Good morning!
I didn't post Thurs or Fri last week because I'm working on a project and writing the Book Store Series. I'm really excited for you guys to read the whole story all the way through, it's getting insane!

So this weekend, we took our little to the movies, and this is what we saw:


This was an awesome movie! It's action packed, it's funny, and it's really colorful. Will loved it, and we thought it was hilarious too. It's such an original story, and Will Ferrell is awesome as always. Go see it! It's worth it!

Thanks for stopping by!